"People will forget all of the good things you've done for them, for the one thing you did wrong"
You'll always see people quote stuff like that on Facebook status, Tumblr and Twitter especially. Believe me, that quote is only valid on people who are less close to you. It never happens to your best friends especially to your significant other or ex-boy/girlfriend. It's gonna be vice-versa. I mean, how can you forget all the things your loved ones have done for you and all the memories you've made together? Even if they've committed loads of mistakes, you know at the end of the day, you'll forgive them right? Unless you're a cold-hearted bishh. Look at those people who aren't over their ex yet. Despite all the shitty things their ex did to them that might be the cause for their break up at the first place (including cheating), deep inside their heart, they're still hoping to get back together again. Let me put it this way for you. Have you ever had a huge fight with your bestie or your bf/gf that made you feel like you never want to talk to them or even see their face ever again? But a week or two after that, you'll start reminiscing your past with them, you'll start reading old texts, looking at photographs of you together and start crying a river, every night before you sleep. You'd be lying your ass off if you say that isn't true. No matter how bad they treat you, and no matter how hard you try to exclude them from your life, you know you're not going to succeed. It will take three million years, three gallons of tears and determination to make that happen. Sometimes, being cold-hearted is better than having to confront all the heartaches that you never thought you could even bear with. Feelings are complicated and people are unpredictable. You can't always use logic and you can't always follow your heart. That's how sad and strange we all are.